I would suggest that you have done ALL of your dd.
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To share from Mama's bible- " The 'Good Lord' does not put more on you than you can handle."
My reply was " What of the sweet Angel who gently applied me baby powder with her feathers?"
Mama smacked the Hell out of me & said " Never go there again."
Point being that the standard of one is not the measure of another & visa versa.This is not to say that I disagree.