Some people suffer severed arms, terrible misfortunes, frightful losses, shattered hearts, incapacitating injury, blindness, dementia, crippling diseases and other not so pleasant afflictions. If I lose a huge bet and a boat load of money well that's on me. Could be far worse.
The boat is still floating in the harbor. I'm not sure it can take on much more water but at least I'll be able to step off in good health. If you enjoy other people's misery (which I personally am not YET) then that's on you. If and when I do shed a tear I'll be sure to prompt you to begin your crowning victory lap.

PS: I know you're better than that. JBZY Yes, JBZY No. So what. A smile goes a long way for a poor man, even further for someone in genuine despair. Now do something nice for someone you know or don't know and get off my back. SMILE Even a pat on the back warms someone's heart.