Fair enough.  However, can you clarify if you mea

Fair enough.  However, can you clarify if you meant can not answer it on a public message board, or, in your heart you just don't know yet.

If its because of the legalities, that is certainly understandable.  If its because you just don't know in your heart... then I will view this as a good thing.  At least you're open to giving it some thought.  That's a good thing in my book.  Lesser men would have shut the door and locked it already.  I honestly don't know what I would do in your situation.

I think you two make a good team, and your results have proven such.  Its a tough decision... shame you were put in the position of having to make it.