Requesting that someone sort out their personal is

Requesting that someone sort out their personal issues in private and afterward if a change is made at that time disclosing the info is not attacking.... It's a request. I know a lot of ppl that are friends still invested here. I would like them to make money hand over fist. I would much rather this have been sorted out behind closed doors and once the issue was resolved then give everyone the rundown of what has gone on. I guess hind sight is 20/20 and you can't take back what has already been done. At this point they rpobably have no choice but to keep up the squable so everyone knows what's going on. It just seems like it could have been avoided in the first place.