"All pray he gets better"...duality is at play her

"All pray he gets better"...duality is at play here...Nobody wants anyone... to be suffering from any malady...especially Life-threatening...that's part (a) of the equation part (b) is that his success...whatever that might. look like...is Our success...Failure is a poor option for us...WHERE is the line drawn...on the options that are being presented.