Something like that happened to me and my wife. I

Something like that happened to me and my wife. I went to the cemetery to take pictures cause I had special things done for us and then came home. In our case my wife said she wasn't born 5 years before me but 5 years after me. Well we spooked the funeral people until they changed my sweethearts birth date. So everything is proper but I wonder... they will burn me then grind me which is OK but part of me is also leaving the state I live in and headed to the Grand Canyon. I keep on thinking do they know which part of me to take to the Canyon?