Personally I don't care one bit if this is the mos

Personally I don't care one bit if this is the most active board or not. What I DO care about is that dishonesty is not tolerated, and that people's private communications are not made public -- especially if the meaning of those communications is being distorted.

People use private messages for a reason -- they want to remain PRIVATE. It is utterly reprehensible to post those messages.