Agree with some of what you are saying. It's just that I got there while sleeping in my own bed & drinking much cheaper wine. Gave comic relief a try. Got a little aggressive at times. Defensive at others. Made an ass of myself more than I care to acknowledge. Don't try to measure my intentions, as I don't know myself. My greatest sober regret is that I involved another human being in my malaise. Point being- a drunk is a drunk. Ha! Ha!