I don't think anyone here is spewing hate toward you. Perhaps you don't realize how your posts are coming across. Tone is easy to misinterpret in text, but your messages come across condescending and as if you are in attack mode half the time.
I've said before in public and private messages that you do make valuable contributions. I just ask that you stay on topic and resist the temptation to attack people. There is no need for it, and it only weakens your argument.