I am constantly abused. It gets so bad that there

I am constantly abused. It gets so bad that there are even days when I begin to think that I'll soon be dead from dish pan hands. Surely I was meant for better things. And the abuse I get doesn't just come from her. A few years back a friend of hers said, "If the dishes don't do him in then maybe you should stick a vacuum in my hands and see if that will finish him off."