Big Guns When you're bitter you're angry and r
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When you're bitter you're angry and resentful and down right nasty Gunny like. Obviously, feeling these negative emotions all the time just isn't good for your day-to-day mood or on the board . Bring adult debate . What ever man clean your Big Guns SPORT !!
Bitter people aren't much fun to be around.
Bitter people aren't enjoyable company. They're prickly and negative and moody.
They develop a mentality where they believe all their problems are the fault of one thing or others.
They negatively stereotype and write off entire groups of people.
They see what they want to see and hold certain groups to higher standards than others.
They develop an Us vs. Them mentality.
They make their decisions in reaction to what other people do.
They avoid potentially good things because of the unpleasant associations they bring up.
They see changing themselves as selling out and 'letting others win'.
They stay in a rut, but think it's their noble destiny to be there.
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So how do you get over your bitterness?
Pledge to stop being bitter and letting past hurts have so much control over you.
This seems very easier-said-than-done. There's got to be more to it than simply deciding not to be bitter any more. The thing is I've heard a lot of people talk about getting over their bitterness in these terms. They were mired in resentment, and then one day they realized how much of their mental energy they were pointlessly wasting, and they consciously shifted their focus.
Sort out your other problems too and live a good life sport.