Yes, Iamidiot, and you certainly don't live up to
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I have just over 300 mil, and my gal had 30 mil (about 10% of what I hold and the actual formula we worked into the prenuptial).
My son holds another 10 million and my ex holds an additional 10 million.
Recently, in order to prevent BLTA from getting de-listed as well as to later take advantage of some poorly timed photos, my fiance's holdings swelled to almost 35 million....almost 5 million above where she was supposed to be and above what we wrote into the pre-nup.
I'm getting it from both attorneys - hers and mine. Apparently, they never dealt with such a loose cannon before and they are having a tough time figuring me out.
Bottom line, as I explained to both attorneys, is that I want my fiance' to earn enough $ to buy the townhouse that she and I share as well as the the one that I rent to her parents. I just can't "give" them to her - she needs to purchase them so that she actually owns them on her own - but if not for BLTA and her brokerage account, I am just not sure how she could possibly get that kind of $ (win the lottery?).
Listen....just in case things don't work out between us....she has someplace safe to go (her townhouse), her parent's don't have to worry (I can't throw them out of their daughter's townhouse), and I myself have La Finca.
A pre-nuptial can truly be a wonderful thing if it is done properly and without greed.
So.....if BLTA goes to 10 cents, she will sell her 30 million shares (slowly, of course), pay Uncle Sam his taxes (1.2 million), pay back the loan (570k at 4%), buy the townhouses all cash (about 800k) and have about 450k left in a bank account for personal spending.
I don't want a spouse who is with me for my $, nor do I want a spouse who has to ask me if she can buy a car or clothes or etc.
Three mottos I live by:
1. Always do the right thing.
2. Be a man of your word
3. Give freely and without consequence and the grace of God will come back to you ten-fold.
I want her to feel independent and not stuck in a marriage because she depends on me financially.
LOL - I guess it is just my way of thinking outside the box (BTW - my male attorney joked that if he were gay he would have consdiered marrying me! This is the same guy who had me sign a waiver in my divorce because he said I was being "too generous" ).
Now..........if only BLTA would make this all a reality.............(personally, I think she will!).