For possible clues to the answer of your legitimat

For possible clues to the answer of your legitimate question, refer to F. Scott Fitzgerald (author of "The Great Gatsby" among other works) who apparently was quite fond of the saying that a man is responsible for his own face after age 40. That is to say, what is "written" inside a man or a woman eventually gets "written" upon their face; Dorian Gray excepted until his ghastly end.