This has followed me all my life, when I was in Hi

This has followed me all my life, when I was in High School Dale Stenberg out on the playing field hit me in the ball's with a base ball, I crippled over in pain and every body laughed , that next summer him and his buddy's were out drinking and driveing and got into a bad car wreck, he ended up in a wheel chair for the rest of his life,
I have more, but I don't think you can handle it.
I'm just saying ,is it coincendent  or Karma, am I attracted to such calamidy as life altering as that,for some unkown reason it just follows me arround