If he is not a kid in mom's basement, he has the emotional maturity of a kid, no matter
what his age...

A truth..."out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks" ...every day we  
experience that with others...the heart will show itself soon or later...for real  

Wonder, hang in there...

Proverb..."The tongue has the power of life and death..." people can speak death and the challenge is to not  to take it personally (they have the issues)

...this happens especially when we are children and people speak death, and many times as a child we receive a lie and it can affect us for the rest of our life...inner healing takes care of old lies...I had to go thru some of that...but I'm free from those lies  

...I know it's not easy all the time...but don't receive BS from anyone and allow it to fester inside...sometimes it takes a little longer than at other times

Keep your head up...we love ya