integracer, no sweat, man. We understand. First God, then family. I would feel the same or worse.  I'll tell you a little story. Mydaughter Sally who is the one getting married in Montana is marrying a truly wonderful guy-we love him so much. He treats Sally like a queen. They were here last year and he and I were driving alone somewhere and he said he loved Sally and ask me for her hand in marriage. I said of course. But there are 2 things you need to know. I expect yall to put Jesus first in your lives and second, if you ever lay a hand on Sally, there is no place on God's green earth you can hide from me-I will find you and it won't be pretty. He said niether of those were a problem, as I knew they weren't. Of course my wife and daughter jumped on me later for saying that, but I got it off my chest because I love my children so much. They will be fine. God will go with them.