Wanna hear something funny?  I saw gfu in message line before I opened message and good for you was what came to my mind. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  Maybe if he doesn't realize the message you were sending, it might stay up for awhile.  That's how the cookie crumbles.  Maybe there was a message in code here.  Somebody was talking about crumbs.  My best to you,  Jim