most people hate to see others succeed. jealousy envy fills their hearts and minds. They will say things - FUD - fear uncertainty doubt - a recent term I learned..lol It's best stay clear of these people. like when you have an addiction that you want to break. If you drink or gamble for example and you decide you want to leave to get help. They don't like that very much because they don't want to be left alone. They will manipulate, insult, get angry. It's not about your well being...they couldn't care less...it's about the illusional threat you pose to them. it is highly unconscious. Anytime people want to better themselves often times more then not they are met with resistance. This even includes family not just strangers you meet on a forum. Same principles apply.. lol