You keep telling yourself that… if you haven’t found a lady to live with and fall in love with by now… chances are slipping away that you may never find her. Being a self described introvert… chances are you will need to start asap.

Some men age like a fine wine. Other lose their hair get that big ol’ belly and lose their looks around your age and only get more homely. Taking chances with your ability to raise a family. Since you mentioned that before… that you wanted a family once.

If I were you I would at least test drive a few of those ladies and see what it is all about. I don’t want to call you a 41 year old virgin extreme introvert ( extreme introvert like you admitted once) but I am thinking your experience with women is limited on the way you phrased your last post. You might consider this the match strike that lit the fire on your ass to get your ducks in a row and start the journey. If you wait… who knows if you find a Darling gal like Salty and I have. They don’t come by often and you shouldn’t waste to much time. Believe me.. I have test driven many women and learned to know when to hold them and know when to fold them, know when to walk away and for sure know when to run… the stalkers are the surprise you never thought you would get but it is an eye opener. If you do start your journey and search… good luck… tick tock tic tock…