Gm..making denands wont change anything in this situation..allowing oneself to suffer out ones own ignorance wont either. living miserably because ones expectations havent been met is a choice. life never presents ideal situations. because everyones idea of whats ideal is different...could things be different sure...but according to whom or what..?
ponder these things instead of why and shoulds and coulds and woulds. these are not productive ways to carry on with ones day..

ask yourself better questions and stop using "why!" take control of your own situation instead of trying to control whats not yours..
youll see how much better off your mental.emotional state will be...

"Money....makes a great servant...but a terrible master" figure out which one you have.