You know what, i dont have the time in my day for tthis back and forth and trying to play referee when people cant respect common sense courtesy and decency.. I dont have the necessary patience to haggle with folks over interpretations of whats right/ wrong or just get caught up in between forum member disputes so one of the other mods or someone else can take over as mod, i would much rather continue to post dd when i can instead of spending hours like i did today cleaning up posts and trying to do the right thing to protect someones privacy and getting flack for it. No wonders jeff got burned out of this job, i just dont have the time or patience to be up to the task. I will stick to what i know best, DD and one of the other mods or someone who can do this can step up.