Hawks that says if "I" not you, damn loosen up. I very seldom am serious to that point. There really isn't anything any one to say to me even if they are pi$$ed that general would I feel. When people feel that a poster is attacking them they are trying it on and only get excited if it fits. If I were to ever feel insulted and flabbergasted I would PM the person. Generally even if some send me a PM and call me names I sometimes respond but none of this stuff in these message threads really mean much to me. They are fun, we learn and also share and try understanding different view points.

Another exercise for me and maybe other do so is to look back a different posts we do. Most will or will be shaking their head, grinning about some of the things we say to each other.

Aside from that people that get super excited and pi$$ed are actual eating someone else poop. Back in the the later 1970 early 80's body building my weight lifting buddy was a black dude and I would always get excited but especially when I had to deal with one of my ex-wives. He told me what other people eat and $hit don't make you $hit and I have always remembered that...now don't get me wrong I still get catch up in that but if I think enough and it doesn't fit than why would I wear it.

That post you reacted too was me having fun however, in the same breath I sometime see people free spirited like me and talk off the cuff. People just may not be as free with their selves so that is something I need to work on.