Amen to that! I've been on various boards for over 10 years, and I still shudder to think about how naïve I was at first. It really does take a lot of time to learn who you can and cannot trust. People can only hide their true intentions for so long, but sadly those who are good at deceiving can prey on those with good intentions due to the long learning curve. People who are new to this board should not take it personally when their comments are viewed with suspicion. Just understand that it's part of the initiation process that comes with all good boards.