Becky,
Sorry for your loss especially seeing as the technology for finding out sooner is available but not greasing anyone's pocket. I really feel for you and hate the way our system handles things, to think that she got an infection, from a hospital and this made her unfit to go to a facility of her choosing makes me very angry and sad. I can see so much BS with the way things get handled in US and am just so suspicious of every doctor's diagnosis and every pill prescribed.
My condolences,
George (Eudius)