I can certainly understand your frustration falcon! As much as a drug can help, the side effects have to be considered. The chemo killed my father in law. Who knows how much longer he would have lived had he not done the treatment. Diagnosed in February, gone the end of May. At the end he said he wished he hadn't gone through it.
Getting the right advice isn't really known till it works, or doesn't work. So making the decision really is about life or death. Treatments that help manage and improve quality of life are a blessing. So I wish you and your wife the best.

I'm optimistic about kevetrin's effects shown on metastatic cancer and how the oral form will be able to not only attack there, but also throughout the bloodstream.
Need to keep those wheels in motion.