I'll add to what the others have said and specifically about the post you are referring to. The Mods talked about this post at length we felt that it should be deleted in the hopes that the parties involved could get past this and move forward. Nothing was done until one of us spoke to the author of this post, it was mutually agreed that it should come down. There's a lot more to this story but I won't post it on this board, so there you have it bottom line is nothing was done without the authors knowledge.