Your whining has zero effect as you see - and yes, if you only would just whine ... there´re also bad manners, hostility, aggressively attacking, name-calling etc.) ... after months of unsuccessfulness trying another tactic? Yours isn´t the smartest one looks (except for your ego, LOL).
They are as they are ... accept that, you surely can´t change them ... however, it obviously helps you bigtime psycho-wise ... therefore be it! LOL