It is all because of the Demented moderator....he can't delete, but he can send for review immediately and 9 times out of 10 it will be deleted. The message Jay rec'd back after the review is their standard message---they hardly ever reverse a delete.
I was sorry to see someone complain about Stew and have him removed---they should do the same thing with FrickFrak and remove him also......so everyone must complain hard and loud!