Hey Coff, I hear ya buddy. But there is social tone that most people don't have to be taught. A way to enter a conversation with someone at party lets say, you don't walk up and say "Hey assh*le I think you're an idiot nice to meet you". It's just an axiomatic condition of joining a new social group to be a little humble until you get up to speed with the crowd and meet a few people.

I don't like to be forced to suffer a fool, and if I were a mod (which I don't want to be and am grateful for WEEDMAN and Neuronal) I would be a "Ban first ask questions later" kind of mod. I would rather the group tell me to let someone back then to ask me to kick someone out. I'm sure I'm unique in this position.

Nevertheless my fine person, you also have a grand weekend!