When I go to a movie I dont like .. I get up and leave.  If I dont feel safe in a sketchy bar, I leave. why is this different for you?  What motivates you to stick around? Is it that the rest of us have done better DD and know whats going on?  the only difference between you  and the rest of us is a little DD and a attitude adjustment. 
There is only one person who is behind the steering wheel of your life.