If you really want ICPA to rise in price, then don't post on these boards such as: "Currently i can buy .0085 at will! I believe .008 and .0075 is next. And tomorrow is still unknown but outlook appears bad." I'm not saying to just say "WEEEEEEE..." and talk about Vegas and zoot suits, but keep the negativity off the boards. It is contagious and can confuse new investors.
Also, IMO, it sounds like you have too high of a % of your portfolio in a single security. You said: "When i say my life depends on it i am not kidding. I have too much on the line here." I'm not sure what ICPA has to do with your son, and honestly it doesn't matter to me. Just look at the bigger picture. No one is here with malicious intent - we all want to make money. No one is here to tell you how to invest or live your life - but we all want the price to increase.
If you're making good money flipping kmag, then use that for your short term play. ICPA is long term, and the prospects are better than most companies out there - regardless of market cap. Scoop up what you can when you can, and don't invest more than you can afford to. I know that is cliche, but it is also common sense.